This sweet-sounding concoction is not a confection; it’s an herbal recipe for soft and shiny hair! Lavender works to strengthen and marshmallow root coats hair while soothing scalp dryness and inflammation. It has a gentle and pleasant aroma that will make this homemade conditioner your new favourite hair care recipe.

Not to brag or anything, but I get a lot of compliments on my hair. I’ve always had long, brown, wavy hair, and it’s gone through a journey, that’s for sure.
I used to rely on commercial shampoo and conditioner. From sulphates to parabens, many people are finding the ingredients used in commercial products to do more harm than good.
When I switched to using my own recipes, I immediately noticed how much healthier my hair was. So now, when people compliment my hair, I say thanks and give them this recipe!
Here’s how you can make your own conditioner and harness the powerful properties of marshmallow root and lavender for your hair.


Before You Begin: Homemade Conditioner and Lotions
Homemade conditioner is easier to make than you might think. When I first started making my own herbal skin and hair care, I was a bit intimidated by making lotions and conditioner. It all seemed to be a bit too complex and I feared that I wouldn’t get the technique quite right.
After taking some beginner, then advanced classes, I realized that it’s not only a pretty simple process once you get the hang of it, but that you can make really high quality products for wayyyyy less money than something similar would cost to buy.
If you are a soap maker, then you know that soap making is expensive. And if you are not a soap maker, you have certainly seen the price tag on a bar of artisanal soap. Quality ingredients come with a price tag, and the labour (and love) involved in making soap is quite involved as well.
But lotions, well, that’s a whole different story. A lotion is mostly water. The little bit of oil, emulsifying wax, and other ingredients you use are so small that they barely add up. And yet the final lotion or conditioner is so rich and luxurious, you would think that so much more went into the recipe than it did.
Buying the initial ingredients might be pricey, but they will last you a while and create many batches of high-quality conditioner.


Lavender + Marshmallow Root Homemade Conditioner Recipe
I’m sometimes surprised to hear that not everyone uses conditioner. I would be lost in a rat’s nest of tangles and frizzy hair without it! Hair conditioner has that wonderful nourishing ability to coat each strand of hair so that it can easily be detangled while reducing split ends and nourishing dry hair.
Marshmallow root is a mucilaginous herb that is often used on its own as a natural hair conditioner. In this recipe, I have used prepared marshmallow root tea to replace part of the water in the conditioner.
This recipe is great for dry hair that needs moisture treatment. Use the conditioner for a few weeks, then switch to another recipe (like this rosemary one) when the hair is repaired.
If this is your first time making lotion or conditioner, please first read THIS POST on How to Make Lotion to read about the ingredients, the three phases, and see the step-by-step photos of how it is done.


Equipment
Ingredients
See the recipe card below for complete measurements.
Aqueous Phase Ingredients
Oil Phase Ingredients
Cool Phase Ingredients


Make it!
The day before, prepare the marshmallow infusion by filling a 250ml / 1 cup mason jar with cut and sifted marshmallow root and filling the rest with lukewarm water. Add a lid and steep overnight. In the morning, strain out the root and use the liquid for lotion.
- Sterilize all of your equipment and workspace with alcohol.
- Use a kitchen scale to weigh the oil ingredients in a heatproof container and weigh the water ingredients in another heatproof container.
- Create a double boiler and heat both the oil ingredients and the water ingredients to 160 degrees F.
- Keep both the water ingredients and oil ingredients at 160 degrees F for 20 minutes.
- In a mixing bowl, add the oil ingredients first and then pour in the water ingredients.
- Use an electric mixer to whip the ingredients in a large bowl.
- Once the ingredients have reached 80 degrees, you can add the cool phase ingredients.
- Continue mixing your conditioner until it’s thick and fluffy.
- Add the conditioner into a sterilized container with a pump. I used this one from Ikea!


FAQ About Making Homemade Conditioner
I don’t measure the amount of marshmallow root by weight. Instead, I simply use enough to fill a 250 ml Mason jar. For more on how I measure herbs for my recipes, check out this post.
No, use this conditioner after washing your hair. Leave it in for 2-3 minutes before rinsing out.
I’ve linked all of the ingredients to Amazon, and they should redirect to your country whenever possible. If you’re still having trouble sourcing these ingredients, you should be able to find them at some refillery stores or at a soap-making supply store in your area. Call and ask!


Try These Lotions, Creams, and Conditioners
Lavender and Marshmallow Root Homemade Conditioner
This herbal recipe is ideal for dry hair, creating soft, shiny, and stronger hair.
Aqueous Phase Ingredients
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Make your marshmallow root infusion the day before. Fill a 250 ml Mason jar and all lukewarm water until it reaches the top. Add a lid and let it steep overnight. In the morning, strain out the root and use the liquid for the lotion.
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Use alcohol to sterilize your equipment and workspace.
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Use a kitchen scale to weigh out all your ingredients. Place oil ingredients in a heatproof container and water ingredients in another heatproof container.
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Use a double boiler and heat both your oil and water ingredients to 160 degrees F, keeping both separate.
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Keep them at 160 degrees F for 20 minutes.
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Add the oil ingredients to a mixing bowl, followed by the water ingredients.
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Use an electric mixer and whip the ingredients.
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When the ingredients are 80 degrees F, add in the cool phase ingredients.
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Whip until it’s thick and fluffy.
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Add the conditioner into a sterilized container. Use conditioner within six months.
For more detailed information on the lotion/conditioner making process, please visit this post: https://gardentherapy.ca/natural-lotion-recipe/